WE LEFT Jessie, Jen and Kate, the Three
Lacrosse-kateers, they were touring the
mid-Atlantic states in a van, searching for the perfect college.
Rejoining the girls today - six months later
- we see that, like the best soap operas, absolutely nothing has
changed.
After more than a year of what has become
a miserable test of endurance, the girls still have no idea where
they are going to college, or if they will be playing lacrosse when
they get there.
The process began about this time last year,
when we, their parents, issued dire warnings about junior-year midterm
exams and how critical those grades would be to the college application
process. It continued through the spring and summer
as the girls played two seasons of lacrosse, with regular interruptions
to visit college campuses.
This fall, things got serious as the girls
tried to narrow the number of schools to which they would apply
to an even dozen and begin the applications - all the while keeping
their grades up in a suitably challenging senior-year academic load.
There was more lacrosse, and there were more college visits. Tension
mounted as the application deadlines collided head-on with senior-year
midterms, about which we parents issued another set of dire warnings.
I don't know about the girls, but my fellow
mothers and I can't keep this up much longer. The college application
process has become a marathon in search of finish line. My message to all the college admissions
directors is this: Your process is going to collapse of its own
weight. It is too long, too expensive, too complicated and too hard
on students and their families.
You need not worry that the flawed SATs
are a poor predictor of academic success. The application process
itself is going to reduce your talent pool to those kids with mothers
like me, ones with the grit and the money to navigate this insane
process.
I was the first in my family to attend college
and managed to do it without more from my parents than a signature
on a form. I took the SATs once. I picked one suitable college out
of a catalog, applied and got in. The first time I saw the campus
was the day I moved into my dorm. I have seen enough families go through this
process since then to know that it is no longer that simple. But
it seems much harder than it needs to be.
The girls have taken the SATs
multiple times after multiple prep courses and tutoring sessions.
They have visited more places than Cher on her farewell tour. And they have applied
to more schools than they can remember the names of. Granted, they have added lacrosse to the
equation. But that might be the only criterion for applying to a
college that these overwhelmed kids could name. (The only other requirement might be what
I would describe as a discount version of the "brand-name college"
criterion: The kids at the lunch table at least have to have heard
of the school.)
The girls all applied using the Common Application,
which is available online, and that is a helpful first step in this
process.
But this application is not universally
accepted, and almost every school required what it called a "supplemental"
application, seeking anything from three lengthy essays to a simple
assertion that the student has not been jailed recently. Some schools required essays, some did not.
Some required interviews, some did not. Some required three recommendations,
some required none. Some had strict application deadlines, some
have rolling deadlines. Some would have a decision for you in two
weeks, some won't let you know until April 1.
The only thing the schools had in common
was an admissions fee of about $50 each. God bless the child who has a vision of
his future and can complete an earnest application for the college
of his dreams without any parental help. I have heard stories about
just such children.
I think Jessie, Jen and Kate are closer
to the norm. The future is Friday night or the next big test, whichever
comes first.
But they are smart, hard-working
girls who can play a sport and who come equipped with parents willing
to fork over the ungodly tuition. It seems to me that the colleges
should be competing for them, not the other way around. To
ask high school seniors to market themselves to colleges - while
maintaining the grades, sports, activities and blemish-free criminal
record that will make them attractive to those colleges - seems
cruel. To then make them wait months for a decision seems
doubly cruel.
Here's what I suggest: A common application that
is universally accepted.
No teacher recommendations, no counselor recommendations and no
essay. Those things are suspect, anyway. If you want a writing sample,
take it from the new SATs.
Just ask for grades and scores, including
SAT subject-area scores and advanced placement scores. If colleges
can find a way to handicap classroom grades to reflect that some
high schools are more rigorous than others that's
OK with me.
Require an on-campus interview and provide
a pool of transportation dollars. This will prevent students from
papering the country with applications, and it will require them
to actually see the school.
The interview can help you with your academic
and population-profile issues, but don't give it much weight beyond
that. Most 17-year-olds don't have a lot of experience with adults
who are not their teachers asking them what they think. No bonus points for legacies, athletes or
minorities. I don't care if your daddy paid for the new library
or if you can run a 4.4-second 40-yard dash or if you're the child
of immigrants. Those things have nothing to do with whether you
can do the work in college.
The admissions office should accept applications
beginning in August before senior year and continuing until July
of the following year, with decisions issued as soon as possible.
That allows students who know what they
want to find out quickly if they are going to get in. Those students
who don't know what they want will have time to figure it out.
The bottom line is this: Students today
understand that a high school diploma isn't going to get it done
anymore. They must have a college degree if they want to earn enough
to support themselves or a family or if they want to do something
they enjoy. Most of the kids who are applying to college
likely have what it takes to earn that degree, or they wouldn't
bother. It is a self-selecting group. And if either the student
or the college has made the wrong choice, it will reveal itself
soon enough.
In any case, these students,
or their parents, are willing to pay upward of $20,000 a year to
find out.
What else does a college need to know?