1. Go to all orientations. Do you really need to go
on yet another campus tour? Yes. The faster you learn your way around
campus -- and around all the red tape -- the more at ease you'll feel
and the better prepared you'll be when issues arise.
2. Get to
know your roommate and others in your residence hall. The people
you live with, most of whom are going through similar experiences and
emotions, are your main safety net -- not only this year, but for all
your years. You may change roommates after the first semester or you
may stay roommates for all four years -- just take the time to get to
know your fellow first-year students.
3. Get Organized.
In high school, the teachers tended to lead you through all the homework
and due dates. In college, the professors post the assignments -- often
for the entire semester -- and expect you to be prepared. Buy an organizer,
a PDA, a big wall calendar -- whatever it takes for you to know when
assignments are due.
4. Find
the ideal place for you to study. It may be your dorm room
or a cozy corner of the library, but find a place that works best for
you to get your work done -- while avoiding as many distractions as
possible.
5. Go to
class. Obvious, right? Maybe, but sleeping in and skipping
that 8 am class will be tempting at times. Avoid the temptation. Besides
learning the material by attending classes, you'll also receive vital
information from the professors about what to expect on tests, changes
in due dates, etc.
6. Become
an expert on course requirements and due dates. Professors
spend hours and hours preparing course syllabi and calendars so that
you will know exactly what is expected of you -- and when. One of the
lamest excuses a student can give a professor: "I didn't know it
was due today."
7. Meet
with your professors. There are only upsides to getting to
know your professors, especially if later in the semester you run into
some snags. Professors schedule office hours for the sole purpose of
meeting with students -- take advantage of that time.
8. Get to
know your academic adviser. This is the person who will help
you with course conflicts, adding or dropping courses, scheduling of
classes for future semesters, deciding on majors and minors. This person
is a key resource for you -- and should be the person you turn to with
any academic issues or conflicts. And don't be afraid of requesting
another adviser if you don't click with the one first assigned to you.
9. Seek
a balance. College life is a mixture of social and academic
happenings. Don't tip the balance too far in either direction. One of
my favorite former students always used to say her motto was to "study
hard so she could play hard."
10. Get
involved on campus. A big problem for a lot of new students
is a combination of homesickness and a feeling of not quite belonging.
A solution? Consider joining a select group -- and be careful not to
go overboard -- of student organizations, clubs, sororities or fraternities,
or sports teams. You'll make new friends, learn new skills, and feel
more connected to your school.
11. Strive
for good grades. Another obvious one here, right? Remember
the words of the opening paragraph; while good grades could have come
naturally to you in high school, you will have to earn them in college
-- and that means setting some goals for yourself and then making sure
you work as hard as you can to achieve them.
12. Take
advantage of the study resources on campus. Just about all
colleges have learning labs and tutors available. If you're having some
troubles, these resources are another tool available to you. Another
idea: form study groups.
13. Make
time for you. Be sure you set aside some time and activities
that help you relax and take the stress out of your day or week. Whether
it's enlisting yoga techniques, watching your favorite television shows,
or writing in a journal, be good to yourself.
14. Don't
feel pressured to make a hasty decision about a career or a major.
It doesn't matter if it seems as though everyone else seems to know
what they're doing with their lives -- believe me, they don't -- college
is the time for you to really discover who you are, what you enjoy doing,
what you're good at, and what you want to be. It's not a race; take
your time and enjoy exploring your options.
15. Take
responsibility for yourself and your actions. Don't look to
place the blame on others for your mistakes; own up to them and move
on. Being an adult means taking responsibility for everything that happens
to you.
16. Make
connections with students in your classes. One of my best students
said his technique in the first week of classes was to meet at least
one new person in each of his classes. It expanded his network of friends
-- and was a crucial resource at times when he had to miss a class.
17. Find
the Career Services Office. Regardless of whether you are entering
college as undeclared or have your entire future mapped out, seek out
the wonderful professionals in your college's career services office
and get started on planning, preparing, and acting on your future.
18. Don't
procrastinate; prioritize your life. It may have been easy
in high school to wait until the last minute to complete an assignment
and still get a good grade, but that kind of stuff will not work for
you in college. Give yourself deadlines -- and stick to them.
19. Stay
healthy/eat right. A lot of problems first-year students face
can be traced back to an illness that kept them away from classes for
an extended period of time that led to a downward spiraling effect.
Get enough sleep, take your vitamins, and eat right. If you haven't
heard the jokes about college food, you soon will. And without mom or
dad there to serve you a balanced meal, you may be tempted to go for
those extra fries or cookies. Stay healthy and avoid the dreaded extra
"Freshman 15" pounds by sticking to a balanced diet.
20. Learn
to cope with homesickness. It's only natural that there will
be times when you miss your family, even if you were one of those kids
who couldn't wait to get away. Find a way to deal with those feelings,
such as making a phone call or sending some email home.
21. Stay
on campus as much as possible. Whether it's homesickness, a
job, or a boyfriend or girlfriend from home, try not to leave campus
too soon or too often. The more time you spend on getting to know the
campus and your new friends, the more you'll feel at home at school.
And why not take advantage of all the cultural and social events that
happen on campus?
22. Seek
professional help when you need it. Most colleges have health
and counseling centers. If you're sick or feeling isolated or depressed,
please take advantage of the many services these offices provide students.
You don't have to face these issues by yourself.
23. Keep
track of your money. If you've never had to create a budget,
now is the time to do so. Find ways to stretch your money - and as best
you can, avoid all those credit card solicitations you'll soon be receiving.
The average credit card debt of college grads is staggering.
24. Don't
cut corners. College is all about learning. If you procrastinate
and cram, you may still do well on tests, but you'll learn very little.
Even worse, don't cheat on term papers or tests.
25. Be prepared
to feel overwhelmed. There's a lot going in your life right
now. Expect to have moments where it seems a bit too much. As one student
says, be prepared to feel completely unprepared. The trick is knowing
that you're not the only one feeling that way.